Skip to main content

3 Steps to Have a Kickass Morning

How to have a kickass day. 

I want to take a few moments this evening and talk about how to have a kickass day by creating a morning ritual. The purpose is to prime your day the same way everyday, so that you can have consistent results. 

Start the morning right.

Here are three simple steps that I use every morning to get ready for the day. Do not be underwhelmed by there simplicity. I recommend you practice them with an experimental mindset and see the results for yourself before you judge them. 


1. Make your bed.

I get up really early and my wife is still sleeping. This does not stop me from taking my blanket, folding it half long ways, and laying it down on my side of the bed. After I take a moment to smooth it out, I top it off with my pillow. This is the first thing I do right after my feet hit the floor. 

This first step is the trigger for the next thing, writing in my gratitude journal. It also puts me into a productive mood. I can say at the end of the day that I at least made my bed. As a side effect, My wife notices immediately if I made my side of the bed. It is normally the first comment she makes to me when I failed to do so. This means that the ritual not only affects me, but her as well. 

What others say about this:


2. Start and maintain a gratitude journal.

I will admit that I didn't think writing "I am so happy and grateful for..." would improve any aspect of my life. Well, I was wrong. I'm sure there is some great science out there that gets into the biochemical neurological reasons why it works, I only know that I am much happier now than before. If my baseline happiness was a 5 of 10 before, it is an 8 of 10 now. Try it and see for yourself.

What others say about this:


3. Exercise.

I am now 40 years old and I exercise every day. Now before you get to excited, the core of my exercise program is walking. I am in no rush to play sports or crossfit or anything that I can get injured by. I simply walk on a treadmill on an incline for an hour. This is something that I can do and I am never soar afterward. This is what works for me. And because it doesn't cause me any pain, I can do it every day. The oxygenated blood flowing to my brain puts me in a very productive mood for the following four hours and I get most of my work done before lunch. 

Find something that you can do every day and do it. There is always time, it will be a matter of priority. I can only say from my personal experience how awesome I feel every day knowing that I took some time to take care of my body. 

What others say about this:


Final thoughts.

I want everyday of my life to be a kickass day. I don't want 'bad' days, I want challenging days. These three steps for me are the elixir that transmute those bad days to just challenging days. They help me adjust my mind and prepare me for what life has to offer me that day. 

In the end, you do you. You figure out what works for you and why you are here on the planet today. 

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Be a loner and perish; Be part of a team and thrive

Connecting. The human species is a very fragile and weak creature when are compared to all the other animals on the planet. We do not have thick skin, claws, the ability to run fast, climb, or thrive in environments beyond a very small range of temperatures. Our situation is even more dire when we are first born. The species family unit must maintain hundred percent vigilance for the first couple years of life just to be able to survive. By all rights, the human species should’ve been destroyed by everything else on this planet. So why are we still here?? From my personal experience, I believe it is because of our ability to collaborate with one another and work towards a common goal through task specialization and delegation. It is impossible to be all things to all people. Our natural talents and disadvantages automatically make us better at some things and worse at others. Through task specialization we can become more useful to those around us and becomes a key reason why others

Do Not Let Fear Stop You

Risk. I have come to believe that the only denominator of ultra successful people is their ability to accept and manage risk. This factor above all others is the one thing that determines when you are ready to take your destiny in your own hands. This factor determines the type of job, school, significant other, and an infinite number of other things that you choose. So what is risk? In my humble opinion, what we deem as risky is a logical interpretation of our emotional fear of the unknown. That means when we say something is too risky, we are justifying our fears. If that is true, then what separates the risk takers from the security takers is their ability to act in spite of their fear. They don’t conquer, overcome, or squash their fears. They feel the fear and act. THEY FEEL THE FEAR AND ACT. In an attempt to take my own advice, I finally pulled the trigger and started my own business. It is registered with the state, has a business account, business structure, and by the end of

Just Show Up!!

Showing up This week I learned the value of simply showing up. Simply by getting out of bed and putting on pants, I gained six hours of one on one coaching and business development with a specific focus on a business I am trying to do. My initial expectation was to make a couple of networking contacts and possibly learn about some local resources. But by the end of the day, my expectation was blown away. A couple of weeks ago I called my uncle about learning how to run a small business. He took over the family business a number of years ago and figured that he had some good insights on situation. Well, he directed me to go to the library and see if they were sponsoring any business classes. I have been to the library before and I did not see anything on that subject, but I also wasn’t looking for it. So the next time I took my daughter to get another 10 books to read over the week; I took the time to see if my uncle is right. And of course he was. In about two weeks from th