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Resetting Life, Day 3 of 17

I see myself as a Savage and a Philosopher. I try not to shy away from the brutality of life, but use the opportunity to learn. These past couple of days have been brutal on my psyche as I am no longer distracted by the normal rhythms of routine. I dig deep into what drives me, I need to accept what I find as my truth (at this time). Then, if I choose, I can change.

I spent the most of the day yesterday in a couple different types of meditation in an effort to get to my core, or at least into a deeper part of my subconscious.

Results:
  • I am truly happy when I am teaching.
  • The topic of the book I’m going to write is on ‘Small Team Leadership’.
  • I need to understand how to set up systems.

Review of Yesterday.


Overall, a lot of adulting got done. The dishes, bathroom, laundry, and some of the rooms were tidied up. I wish I could take the credit for all the activity, but to my surprise my kids decided on their own to chip in. They took care of the bathroom and living room without even being asked. I think that because they were watching the wife and I do stuff, they decided to help. I will experiment with this idea this week to see how it goes.

I also spent some time configuring my blog. I needed to simplify the design and make it more available across more platforms. One of my goals is to gain subscribers, and to do so I need to make my site as pleasing as possible.

Plan for Today.


Today I am going to spend a lot of time on my blog and learning on how to get it exposed to more people and adding features that have value. My goal today is to get 1 subscriber. A journey of a thousand miles starts with one foot step. :)  

I also see more laundry and dishes in my future. Which is good, anything I can do to simplify my space around me is a good thing.

Final Thoughts.


I am excited to start my book this week and make this blog better. This brings me joy and one day I might make it my full time job. But to do so, I will need a lot of critical feedback. This is where you come in. Please blast me in cyberspace and turn up the heat so that I can forge this blog through the fire of criticism. Thank you.

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